1/24/2013

A letter to youth

My experience after one sem. in
university.
- I used to think that college is
synonym of heaven. You can do
everything . but I was wrong.
- Here You will find some fellows
whom we can consider as expected
 outcome of our higher secondary
educational system - So selfish.
- After one month in college-
"Someone can avoid
studies...!!!"(unbelievable)
after one sem. - " even somebody
can take studies
seriously....!!!" (shocking)
- I used to think that people wander
with their girlfriends in campus &
have fun. But after getting into
college I came to know that even
this requires great courage to start
conversation with girls. It seems
very easy but little difficult for shy
guys like me.
- last benchers are very creative....
They can fill whole desk with name of
 lovers, censored drawings, quotes
( like - never ask salary of man,age
of woman & marks of
engineer....!!!!), etc.
- In school days, having girlfriend
or crush is like "Top secret" matter.
Now it's common. But in collage,
"Top secret" is grades/marks.
- You can learn more from people
around you than attending lectures.
                 This is my recent facebook status update. I have written about my experience of 1 sem. at university. I am in Electrical branch. We all know one truth very well that in school days we all dream of college life. College life attracts us very much. But when we get in college we understand that nothing is special here.
                  After 12th or 10+2 standard( whatever you call it, we all know it's crap.) everyone gets excited to join college. You can see some lovers here roaming in campus. If you observe them, I bet you will find that they change partners or lovers like cloths. Everyone is now used to this, so no one feels the pain of break up or something.
                College is not all about study & love. There is something more, You can learn there by using your observation. You know!?? After 3 idiots movie a new complex "Rencho Complex" can be seen in colleges. Some people try to show that they never read ,though they top the class. It irritates me, because they read a lot but they always lie that they read very less. You may know some people around you suffering from "Rencho Complex".
               Most important thing is to take part in different events & workshops..... Books can make you sincere & bright but experience can make you smart & genius. Never mess up with professors. If you know , you are right then you can screw up professors  too. But try to avoid it because, your grades indirectly depends on your relation with professors. Now it depends on you, which type of students you want to become??!! In my view , there are 3 types of student :-
1) First benchers
2) middle benchers
3) last benchers
                  First benchers are generally very sincere & they keep asking questions to professors during lectures. Last benchers are my favourite , because They don't have particular charasteristics. They may be sincere, funny, genius, quiet, careless. I proud to be a last bencher. Middle benchers are generally quiet & confused ones. I guess they are little confused whether they should sincerely learn or have fun. In India, It is very difficult to find a teacher or professor who spare some time to research work. Indian teachers are very concerned on earning money. So ultimately they are dependent on books, mostly not written by them.
                  Our mind also follows Newton's first law. When we leave one stage of life & enter in a new one, our mind resist the change occurred around us. So we think that
the previous stage(time period) was amazing , If god tell me to ask a wish , I will definitely choose that stage. Then we pass another stage of life & another new stage begins. Same process again. It will never stop.
                It doesn't matter whether you have got full marks or zero, Life doesn't believe in partiality. 

1 Rethoughts:

Unknown said...

darshil you r absoulutly right. i read your blog carefully i totally agree with u.i also couldn't understand some students bunk the lecture & how they can get 8 or 9 point...but now i understand that they do not sleep in whole night.even they come to lecture to sleep.they are not rancho but they are afraid from healthy compitition thats the reason i think.
as far as in the matter of relationship concerned i can't understand how can they fall in love so easily.i think in clglife it sells in cost of subji.let me tell u one think about my close friend(now i am not considering him close frnd)he wrote on facebook "Don't say ex just say next"what a rubbish & cheap thing he is saying..
In clg boys & girls spend time with each other.but they don't have any(true) feeling of love i think....
& according to me school life is far far better than clg life.i think true frndship is always built in school life.it is difficult for u in clg..In school so many peoplee understand u
but in clglife it is quite difficul

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