1/26/2013

Love @facebook

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                            Facebook is one of the biggest social networking sites available on Internet. Most of us are member of facebook. Here is one love story which I would like to tell you........
                         
                            At sixteen years old, Sysay Tedros was happily living in Ethiopia with her large family and boyfriend Getu, whom she planned to marry. But war broke out, causing Sysay, her mother, and sister to flee to England without warning. Even after they were settled in the U.K., Sysay could get no concrete answer about Getu’s whereabouts. But she never forgot him. Ten years after leaving Ethopia, she started reconnecting with friends who also fled. Through these contacts, she found out that Getu was still alive and got his phone number. She called him almost immediately and was overjoyed to find he never stopped thinking about her either. Soon after, he moved to England and they got hitched.
[source- www.divinecaroline.com]
               
                            Facebook helped a lot Syay Tedros to maintain her relationship with her boyfriend. As we all know , now a days facebook is working as medium which improves relationship between or among the  people. Here I am going to talk about how facebook is fulfilling desires of lovers. Are you in love with someone from your friends?? I know there are many people out there who have positively answered my question.
                            If you have negatively answered my question, then answer few more questions......
1)Whenever you sign into your account, Do you try to find out whether particular person is online or not?
2)Do you download profile pic of a particular person & watch it frequently?
3)Ask yourself- When you update your status, What do you expect?? A like from particular person or bulk likes?
4)What is more important for you more likes or a single like from a particular person??
5)Do you always try to be alert so that you can't lose a single opportunity to chat with particular person?
6)Is there any person on facebook whose profile you check on & off?
7)Do you like someone's post without reading sometimes,Because you think, that person is perfect ??
                  There are many questions I haven't written, but if you've answered all the questions or most of them positively..... then sorry to say you have lost your heart...!!!! You are in love. I am looking for comments guys.... come on..!! share your experience...... or leave comment as a feedback.

1/24/2013

A letter to youth

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My experience after one sem. in
university.
- I used to think that college is
synonym of heaven. You can do
everything . but I was wrong.
- Here You will find some fellows
whom we can consider as expected
 outcome of our higher secondary
educational system - So selfish.
- After one month in college-
"Someone can avoid
studies...!!!"(unbelievable)
after one sem. - " even somebody
can take studies
seriously....!!!" (shocking)
- I used to think that people wander
with their girlfriends in campus &
have fun. But after getting into
college I came to know that even
this requires great courage to start
conversation with girls. It seems
very easy but little difficult for shy
guys like me.
- last benchers are very creative....
They can fill whole desk with name of
 lovers, censored drawings, quotes
( like - never ask salary of man,age
of woman & marks of
engineer....!!!!), etc.
- In school days, having girlfriend
or crush is like "Top secret" matter.
Now it's common. But in collage,
"Top secret" is grades/marks.
- You can learn more from people
around you than attending lectures.
                 This is my recent facebook status update. I have written about my experience of 1 sem. at university. I am in Electrical branch. We all know one truth very well that in school days we all dream of college life. College life attracts us very much. But when we get in college we understand that nothing is special here.
                  After 12th or 10+2 standard( whatever you call it, we all know it's crap.) everyone gets excited to join college. You can see some lovers here roaming in campus. If you observe them, I bet you will find that they change partners or lovers like cloths. Everyone is now used to this, so no one feels the pain of break up or something.
                College is not all about study & love. There is something more, You can learn there by using your observation. You know!?? After 3 idiots movie a new complex "Rencho Complex" can be seen in colleges. Some people try to show that they never read ,though they top the class. It irritates me, because they read a lot but they always lie that they read very less. You may know some people around you suffering from "Rencho Complex".
               Most important thing is to take part in different events & workshops..... Books can make you sincere & bright but experience can make you smart & genius. Never mess up with professors. If you know , you are right then you can screw up professors  too. But try to avoid it because, your grades indirectly depends on your relation with professors. Now it depends on you, which type of students you want to become??!! In my view , there are 3 types of student :-
1) First benchers
2) middle benchers
3) last benchers
                  First benchers are generally very sincere & they keep asking questions to professors during lectures. Last benchers are my favourite , because They don't have particular charasteristics. They may be sincere, funny, genius, quiet, careless. I proud to be a last bencher. Middle benchers are generally quiet & confused ones. I guess they are little confused whether they should sincerely learn or have fun. In India, It is very difficult to find a teacher or professor who spare some time to research work. Indian teachers are very concerned on earning money. So ultimately they are dependent on books, mostly not written by them.
                  Our mind also follows Newton's first law. When we leave one stage of life & enter in a new one, our mind resist the change occurred around us. So we think that
the previous stage(time period) was amazing , If god tell me to ask a wish , I will definitely choose that stage. Then we pass another stage of life & another new stage begins. Same process again. It will never stop.
                It doesn't matter whether you have got full marks or zero, Life doesn't believe in partiality. 

1/14/2013

IIT- Indian Institute of (Mental) Terrorism

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                          Try to understand the title. I have added Mental, but it is silent & changed Technology to Terrorism. Why I have added Mental?
                          Want to get admission in IITs? I know most of you are very eager to know how to join IIT..... & some of you are probably failed to get into IIT. To me, People who are failed to get into IITs, are the luckiest people in the world. I have never tried to get into IIT. I have never attempted IIT-JEE. There are three reasons.
1) I can't make wall between me & world.
2) I can not memorize rubbish material for it.
3) I don't want to ruin my thinking power.
                          Before you try to get admission into IIT, I want to tell you something. Let me introduce my two friends- Mr.Gajananda & Mr.Gadhananda.. Mr.Gajananda is an elephant & Mr.Gadhananda is a donkey. Mr.Gajananda has very sharp memory. You might know that elephant has very sharp memory. Elephant will never forget your face after gazing at your face only once. Mr.Gadhananda has very good hard working abilities. You know that donkeys are used to carry very heavy loads under human guidance.
                          So,got it? No? I know. What I want to say is- Even animals have sharp memory & hard working ability. You need just 2 weapons to get into IITs.
1)Sharp Memory
2)Hard working ability.
                          What is the difference between you & animals. Humans are endowed with Thinking ability. You don't need it for IIT. You have to learn by heart hundreds of concepts & patterns of questions & even more. Still there is no guaranty for your admission.
                          Chetan Bhagat has mentioned in his book "5 Point Someone" that you must close yourself in a room for AT LEAST two years, & then you might get into IITs. Friends now tell me what you need as a proof better than this. Some former IITians are at one on this issue. You must know there are some institutes which guaranty you for your admission in IITs. But before you jump with the joy must read this......
http://vj-menon.blogspot.in/2011/10/on-iits-coaching-centers-and-mrmurthys.html
                          At last, Why I have added mental? You can understand now..... If you have good thoughts then you will definitely earn money. It is proved fact that none of the great scientists of India is graduated from IIT. Thank you.
                                                   

1/13/2013

Internet & Education

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                       This is very wide topic & we can discuss very much on this topic. Internet is treasure of knowledge. We have to learn a subject,named- " communication skills" , in first year @ University. We are supposed to talk about advantages & disadvantages of Internet at University level. When we speak on this topic, they check 2 things-
1)Our knowledge about Internet.
2)whether we have sense of good & bad or not.
                       But I think Internet should be added as a subject @ Secondary level in school. They should be introduced with advantages & taught to avoid disadvantages.
                       If you are a frequent user of Internet, then you must know about "Khan Academy". You can learn whatever you learn @ school through best medium of learning -'videos'.
                       There are many sites available on Internet,Using them you can enrich your knowledge on various topics. One of them is "www.Howstuffworks.com". This site is constructed for curious people.
First you will read this sentence on site probably-' Learn How everything works '. You will find very interesting stuff on this site, related with things around you. You will also find some ' top 10' & ' top 5' like stuff on this site if you are curious.
                       If you love to read about history then I can suggest you a site- "www.History.com". Yes, you all know about History channel, same owner. There is one amazing feature on this site- 'This day in History' It enables you to see some benchmarks in history occurred on your birthday.
                       I haven't copied & pasted this information here. But I like to access such sites. I have visited all these sites & I have just written my experience.
                      If you are fond of reading books then I am going to introduce heaven for you. "www.bookchums.com" & "www.free-ebooks.net" are wonderful sites. You can access over 50,000 Free ebooks in 'Free ebooks' section of "www.bookchums.com". You can download any ebook. You will also find thousands of ebooks on "www.Free-ebooks.net", but if you create free account then you can download 5 books per month. You just need to log in through your existing facbook or google account to download free ebooks from bookchums, no limts as "www.Free-ebooks.net".
                     If you have smartphone then you can download some very useful apps from "Education" section of Google play,App store & Market place. You only need desire & strength to capture information.
Not just only students but, teachers should also visit such sites & apps. I want to suggest that, If possible students should be allowed to open such sites once in a week in schools.
                     

Woman's Rights

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                 In 10th standard, we were asked to write an essay- "Nari tu Narayani" this is Gujarati sentence & shows importance of women. It was very sad that many of us memorized this essay. It was very important essay at that time( now I am in first year of engineering.).Something like MOST IMPORTANT(imp).
                But the aim behind asking this essay, can not be achieved like this.I think their objective behind asking this essay is to increase awareness of students on "position of women" in society,Because students are the future citizens. But we have already seen, what could occur if we memorize everything like "Chatur"(3 Idiots).
                Recently some incidents have raised questions against women's position in society.Some people believe that importance of women is increasing day by day in society while some people still believe that society has not accepted women completely,yet.
                Once I read a book- " Nari & Kranti"( means= " woman & revolution"). It is still in my library. This book is based on Osho's speech & written in Gujarati by Mr. Raman Desai. There are some very good points mentioned in this book. Osho opposed "Ladies first" formula. Today this formula is used on and off, but it conveys wrong message to society. When a man leaves his position by speaking "Ladies first" & allow a woman to take his position, it indirectly tells society that women are not strong enough to occupy their own position. This shows that men are having Ruth on women consequently, women are there where they can not be, without men's support.
               It makes man feel like superior,which is not good for our society. I think women should oppose this formula. women should become so firm that it doesn't matter how long queue is, I will stand & I will wait till my turn. women have to fight to show society that they are strong enough to occupy anything.
               Women are very close to their hearts. Women are more emotional then men. It is scientifically approved that men think more logical then women. A Man uses more logic then a woman. But at last, we all live through our heart.
               It is the best time to increase significance of women in Indian society. There are only 11% families in India, in which women are living with zero violence of their rights. It is sad that 11% is not enough for that country which is known as "future super power". A woman is someone's mother, she is also someone's daughter, she is someone's friend & she is someone's sister too. Though Women have been playing such roles in our society, they are still fighting for their rights. It sounds like a paradox that women are rapped & insulted in that country where they are considered goddesses &  worshiped.
              I think society is impossible without woman, because son is impossible without mother.
                          - Darshil Shah , student of engineering.
 

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